there are 3 of them!
Ok. and two of them are a year old and have to be carried everywhere!
Don't get me wrong for one second here. I know how tremendously blessed I am. I would not trade this season of my life for anything. But i'd be lying if I didn't say that it's utterly and completely exhausting at times.
Addie was an only child for 2 years. (I know. Many oldest children are. I'm just pointing it out).
She not only had my undivided attention, she had her Daddy's and RieRie's and Papa Ray's and Gramma's and Grandpa's and Nana's and really any other adult she was around.
Spoiled? Maybe a little, but it was just part of being the first child and the first grandchild on one side of the family for a year and on the other side for two years!
I wish that I could say that I spend quality one on one time with Addie for an extended period each morning while the twins nap. But the reality of that is that it's impossible. Impossible because I need to eat breakfast before 11am and maybe dress and shower? I need to at least start the laundry and load the dishwasher if for any reason so we can have clean things. I might need to pick up around here every once in a while too. But on a good day, I have enough energy (and motivation) to get it all (or some of it at least) done super fast and spend some of that one on one quality time with my big girl. On other days, I just ditch it all and go play with her!
Last week, we headed outside in the cool of the morning to play. We played hopscotch and I pushed her in the swing. We laughed and of course...it all ended in the dirt! I think it's her favorite place to play.
In addition to loving the dirt, she loves making cakes or cupcakes or tea or ice cream cones (with sand/dirt/sticks) and singing Happy Birthday!
Finn even jumped into
She had worked super hard to make these sticks stand up in the dirt on her cake! And it was time for ME to sing happy birthday to her. I asked her if I could take pictures while I sang (I can't multi-task like I used to; but the lighting was gorgeous, and I was determine to do this!). I was practically laying on the ground and got my camera settings straight BEFORE I started singing. ISO. Aperture. Exposure. Done.
Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday dear Addie.
Happy Birthday to you!
I am beyond thankful for this time I have with our girls. God continues to teach me daily (hourly? minutely (is that a word?)!) about patience and gratefulness and the importance of raising our girls to be Godly women.
And none of that can be done without spending quality time with Him and with each of them! The laundry and dishes can and will wait. It's no longer about me feeling like I've accomplished something on the daily checklist. It's about investing in these precious lives God has blessed us with!
I Thessalonians 5:16-22
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not quench the Spirit. Do not treat prophecies with contempt but test them all; hold on to what is good, reject every kind of evil.















































